Gotta Love Young Love
As the spirit of Valentine’s Day has been looming since January 31st, it’s difficult to steer a curious mind away from past lovers, current heartbreak, or anticipated flings. Ah, young love- something that people always dream about, but something that might not always end like “The Notebook.” Being young does not disqualify you from love, yet it doesn’t help in keeping distance from any form of heartbreak that comes with it. The typical course of the mistakes made in a young relationship has the power to teach someone a lot about themselves, and those who are lucky enough to experience this roller coaster of growth may emerge with the following lessons.
You CAN Survive the Heartbreak… Even if it Doesn’t Seem like it
The heartbreak that comes with young relationships may seem unbearable, but sometimes they are beneficial! It is important to acknowledge feelings and be sad. Once that’s over, you are led into a whole new world of self-love. There is free time that you probably didn’t realize existed, and there is no time to be wasted. Explore new hobbies, reconnect with friends and family, and spend time getting to know yourself. Carry your own happiness as a responsibility by prioritizing care for yourself. People will only change on their own terms, so don’t wait around for a past partner to be the partner of your future dreams.
Better Alone than in Bad Company
It is easy to remember the good times, but remember, not everyone has the same heart as you. The hurt and pain that your heartbreak caused may happen again if you allow this old flame to stick around! You may be alone at some points… but isn’t that better than feeling broken? The truth is, alone time can be extremely rewarding, while bad company can hold you back from being your most confident self.
Whatever You do, Don’t Ditch your Friends
Friends, family, pets, and even hobbies may accidentally get kicked to the curb! As relationships end, there are opportunities for new ones to arise, so in your next chapter, make sure to prioritize balance. Making time for friends is vital as they will be the people to pick you up and help you back on your feet when heartbreak occurs. It’s easy to learn that positive friendships can make you happier than an on-and-off relationship.